The Shades of a Woman

“Though fairy tales end after ten pages, our lives do not. We are multi-volume sets. In our lives, even though one episode amounts to a crash and burn, there is always another episode awaiting us and then another. There are always more opportunities to get it right, to fashion our lives in the ways we deserve to have them. Don't waste your time hating a failure. Failure is a greater teacher than success.” 

~Clarissa Pinkola Estés~

Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype~

I've just finished re-reading this fantastic book, and was reminded, once again, about the ebbs and flows we, as women, experience during our lives.   We laugh and we cry; we feel like we are on top of the world, and just as quickly as we reach a pinnacle, we plummet back down to a crevasse.  For so long, I thought I was alone on this crazy journey of emotional ups and downs, seeking answers from all the wrong places.  Yes, I do not deny that depression is real, and must be addressed holistically.  But I'm speaking here about the normal, natural cycles that women experience from a very early age, and will continue to experience as she matures through life.  

One day, we are brilliant, bright hues of reds and oranges and yellows; passionate and expressive, overflowing with creativity and abundance of joy and love.  During this cycle, we immerse ourselves in loving and learning and playing.  Our muse is surrounding us, and we go with her, freely and fully.  These are the days we will not forget.  We don't want to forget; we'd live here forever if we could.  But then it happens.  A little gray sets in and the next thing you know, we are catapulted into a deep, dark place that feels so lonely and remote.  

During this cycle, we feel sad and empty, and seek solace from what feels like never ending drama and chaos.  We are bone tired; exhausted. We withdraw, and enter into our silence, where we ultimately get back in touch with our souls, which is where true healing takes place.   

We become grateful again, and just like the first daffodils peeking out of the cold earth as Spring slowly appears, we emerge with a softness and gentleness that only we can understand. Here, we weep because we are happy.  We embrace and live in the moments of simple pleasures like spoiling those we love.  This space is like a little piece of heaven on earth.  

You see, we are all kaleidoscopes of color and emotion, and it's okay to encompass ALL the hues of life.  It's a beautiful life and without the darker hues, we'd never realize the full brilliance of all those beautiful, bright, lovely colors.   

Just remember that you own your rainbow and 

you are the creator of your own masterpiece.  

Don't allow others to paint your canvas!  

Find Her!

She is in there, waiting to get out.  

Yes, that's her, your inner hippie, and she's light and free and happy.  

She's not concerned with making the rules or breaking the rules.

She just wants to BE.

She's the innocent child, the spirit that wants to fly.

She has learned that in order to truly be happy, 

she must practice the art of release and bittersweet goodbyes.

She not only stops to smell the roses,

she becomes the flower.

She flows like the river, and smells like gentle showers, in the Spring.

She is comfortable in her own skin, and doesn't hold onto chaos, or pain, or loss.

She chooses love and peace, instead of guilt and fear.  

She's one of the stars, and her light embraces all who are near her.

She is there, begging for you to notice her sweet, sweet soul.

~SC~

2014

Today, I hope you release the things that no longer serve you.  

PLAY

BE FREE

RELEASE and

SHINE YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIGHT!

"Don't Go Back To Sleep"

“Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, whispering 'it will be happier” 

~Alfred Tennyson~

Greetings to my beautiful, wonderful friends!  I must say, thank you, sincerely, for your continued support, encouragement and friendship. I won't spend time lamenting about my lack of blog posts during 2013 because...IT'S A NEW YEAR!  And I'm on to bigger and better things.  I finally feel like I"m emerging from a long, deep slumber.  A sleep filled with dreams of distraction, exhaustion and a "focus deficit".  

SO many things contribute to our ability to create, effectively.  It's my believe that creativity flows from and through Spirit, but we must be open and receptive to the flow.  Sometimes, the daily challenges of life block that process, if we allow it to do so.  Although I never stopped creating and moving forward during the past year, my process was definitely impacted by outside factors, none of which deserve the courtesy of a mention, because I've released them, softly and quietly.  And guess what...this year of now off to a GREAT start!  I've been met with so many positive changes, just within the first 2 weeks of 2014.  This year is already "happier".

Visit my new site!

For those of you who follow me, you know my website has been in flux for a long time now.  But I'm happy to announce that I've streamlined, and have decided to manage my products through "Big Cartel".  Finally, Liby Luly has a customer-friendly interface, which collaborates with Facebook and Pinterest.  For Facebook, the store is right on the page - just click the "Store" icon.  Please take a moment to visit the site.  I would LOVE your feedback.  This format allows me to quickly and easily add new products as they are born, and interact with you on a whole new level.  Look for new creations coming soon!

This is just ONE of the wonderful changes you will see for me and my business this year.  A blog giveaway is coming soon, so look for opportunities to win some one-of-a-kind creations from Liby Lula.

Thank you all, again, for being part of my life.  And HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and your family...

XOXO

My Best Friend!

Some Southern Sparkle...

SOME VINTAGE JEWELS FROM RECENT TREASURE HUNT

Yes M'aam, I'm a Southern Girl!  Born and raised.  Can you ever imagine then, where I get my LOVE for sparkling, shiny and decadent jewelry?  I have such fond memories of my Grandmother, and, of course, her jewelry box.  I would spend what seemed liked hours, trying on her "aurora borealis ear bobs",  and playing with her rhinestone chains. I will hold the magic of those moments in my most treasured memories forever.  

My love for this era has translated into modern and rich jewelry that can be worn today, and for years to come.  By integrating a piece of the past, a moment of history, into my designs, my fondest memories are captured within each special piece I create.  Each time I design something new with vintage elements, I'm instantly transported back to Georgia, and once again, I'm that little girl mesmerized by my Grandmother's shiny, sparkling jewels that, in my mind, are as priceless as diamonds...and so are these memories.

May your days be filled with Southern Sparkle!

Here are some new items in the works!  I've been busy, working on the "business" side of Liby Lula, but please stay tuned!  There are so many new and exciting things on the way, I can hardly wait to share them with y'all! 

The Voice of Spirit

Sometimes, when Spirit speaks, it's very quiet and soft, like a gentle breeze.  Other times, it nudges you, a wee bit firmer, yet never rude or bothersome.  And sometimes, more often that we realize, the voice of Spirt speaks SO clearly to our hearts that it simply cannot and will not be ignored.  This is when we MUST, without hesitation, open our minds and our hearts to its call.  We know the voice, yet oftentimes, we get so busy in our daily routines that we ignore it.  But lately, I've been listening, and I must tell you, my heart is leaping!  A purpose, a calling, a reason...it's all coming together, piece by piece, bit by bit.  The ideas, the people, the "cause and effect" actions that have lifted me up recently, so much so that I've felt joy that is difficult to express.  

I urge you, this week, listen to your heart, with the intention of hearing the voice of Spirit.  What things, even seemingly insignificant, make you happy?  Is it giving someone a genuine compliment?  Is it paying for a cup of coffee for the person behind you?  Perhaps it's listening to a friend, truly listening, and walking away from the conversation knowing you've helped that person through a very difficult time.  These things...giving...without expectation of anything in return...this is when Spirit is most present.  And I promise, when you GIVE...you will RECEIVE, gifts so abundant and magical, you'll be in a state of awe and wonder.  Do things that make your heart leap, for Spirit wouldn't want it any other way!

Happy Spring!

HAPPY SPRING AND BLESSED OSTARA!

Today marks a beautiful time of the year as the Light and Dark are equal, but going forward, the Light will surpass the Dark.  Soon, flowers will bloom and birds will sing.  I always feel so energized and excited this time of the year.  My creativity  is renewed, and ideas, which have been dormant, blossom into fruition.  For this cycle, this beautiful bringing of the light, is part of the magical wheel which always comes back around, not a moment too soon (especially for those of us here in the Midwest :-)

Enjoy this time, as your days grow longer, 

and the sweet magic of Spring visits us once again.

The Music We Are

by RUMI

Did you hear that winter is over? The basil

and the carnations cannot control their

laughter. The nightingale, back from his

wandering, has been made singing master

over the birds. The trees reach out their

congratulations. The soul goes dancing

through the king's doorway. Anemones blush

because they have seen the rose naked.

Spring, the only fair judge, walks in the

courtroom, and several December thieves steal

away. Last year's miracles will soon be

forgotten. New creatures whirl in from non-

existence, galaxies scattered around their

feet. Have you met them? Do you hear the

bud of Jesus crooning in the cradle? A single

narcissus flower has been appointed Inspector 

of Kingdoms. A feast is set. Listen: the

wind is pouring wine! Love used to hide

inside images: no more! The orchard hangs

out its lanterns. The dead come stumbling by

in shrouds. Nothing can stay bound or be

imprisoned. You say, "End this poem here,

and wait for what's next." I will. Poems

are rough notations for the music we are.

Cosmic Confirmation

I did not begin this year with a lofty list of resolutions; rather, I decided to go into 2013 with an open heart and mind. A goal to be mindful of small miracles that occur each day, and thoroughly enjoying those moments of magic, no matter how large or small.  Despite being mindful of these intentions and a having a grateful heart, the end of the holidays always brings with it a feeling of sadness for me.  Dismantling all the beautiful decorations, shoving them into boxes until 11 months later, and missing the overall "lack of light", both inside and outside, brings to visit a certain melancholy that can sometimes feel daunting.  But these are the moments when unexpected gifts sometimes arrive, reminding us that all is well and reiterating the need for us to focus on our gifts, our creativity and what we have to share with others.  I call these reminders "cosmic confirmations".  

I'm honored, once again, for the privilege of being published by Stampington & Company, in the 2013 January edition of Belle Amoire (The Artistry of Clothing and Accessories).  A very exciting and encouraging way to begin the new year!  My seasonal melancholy was beginning to get the best of me, and then I received my gift...my beautiful artist copy of Belle Amoire.  Once again, it was just the miracle I needed to help me shift my perception from feeling grey and blue, to realizing that sometimes, I have to create my own sunshine.  I know that they days are getting lighter and longer, the cold will soon give way to warmth, and in the meantime, I'll surround myself with the comfort of friends, family and the magical gift of creativity!  A sneak peak as some new items for 2013...